SEVEN PEARLS FOR EFFECTIVE
COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY
Research has proven that by identifying our
distorted thoughts and beliefs, we can have better control over thoughts, thus
better control over our feelings. Having distorted thoughts or beliefs
doesn't mean that there is something wrong with us. We all have distorted
thoughts and beliefs at different times in our lives.
Some
examples of distorted thoughts:
OVER-GENERALIZING: At
times, we may see things as all-or-nothing. For example, if one thing goes
wrong with a project, we may think that the entire project is a failure.
Or, if there is one thing that upsets us about a person, we may decide we don't
care for that person at all.
MIND READING: We assume that we know what
someone is thinking. We may tell ourselves that someone thinks we are
"stupid" or does not like us even though there is no evidence that
supports this thought. This is called mind reading.
CATASTROPHIZING: We
exaggerate how "awful" something is or imagine the worst possible
outcome. Perhaps our boss wants to speak with us and we catastrophize that we
are going to be fired. Or, it rains on one of the days of a vacation and we
think "this is the worst thing that could have happened".
FORTUNE TELLING: We
think we know for sure what is going to happen. For example, we tell ourselves,
"I know I am not going to get that promotion" or "I won't be
able to handle that assignment".
In addition, specific
behaviors or skills are taught including social skills, assertiveness,
organizational skills, and relaxation techniques. These are taught during and
between sessions.
Below, are seven pearls that
I will share with you that I have found helpful over the years in my practice:
1. DISCUSS GOALS OF TREATMENT
During the initial assessment
phase, it is important to collaborate on the goals of treatment. This helps
keep the treatment focused and productive. Without goals, therapy can end up
focusing on whatever problem is coming up that week and can interfere with
progress of the original presenting problems. Sometimes, the patient may not be
able to specifically describe a goal except a vague "I want to be less
anxious" or "I want to feel happier". This is fine
at the beginning. However, over the first couple of months, you should return
to this discussion about goals to see if they can be described in more specific
terms.
For example, if someone
presents with depression, the goals may include the following: Finding a more
fulfilling job, returning to college, exercising three times a week,
making two new friends, and stopping the use of marijuana.
2. START EACH SESSION WITH AN
AGENDA
Every session should start
with an agenda that is discussed collaboratively between the therapist and the
patient. Again, this helps to keep the session focused and more effective. The
agenda should include following up on homework from the previous session, a
check-in about the mood and week, bridging or reviewing the topics and progress
from the previous session, and topics related to discuss in the current session
that is related to a specific goal.
3. DISCUSS WHERE TO ADDRESS
THE ISSUE
Most therapy goals will have
several components including distorted thoughts, beliefs or behaviors. Thus,
during the session, collaboratively decide on which level to address the goals.
If you are working on distorted thoughts, it is important to elicit what
thoughts or images occur that are leading to the distress, such as anxiety, low
mood, or blocking a certain behavior. If you are working on certain behaviors
such as social skills or relationship issues, it is important to discuss when
the skills will be used and how likely it is the skills will be used. Another
useful technique for addressing behaviors is role playing and visualizing which
helps to practice the skills and address any blocks or anxieties around the
behavior.
4. USE FLASHCARDS
Flashcards can be used to
remember the key points of the session or a mantra that may help with certain
thoughts or feelings. If I am working with a patient who is struggling with
depression, I will title the flashcard something like "Survival
Kit" and it will include strategies to cope with the depression such as
reaching out to a friend, getting out of the house, reaching out to me, or
taking care of a small chore.
5. STAY FOCUSED
At the beginning of treatment,
goals for therapy are discussed. Sometimes, the therapy session may head
in a direction that is unrelated to any of the goals of treatment. This is
appropriate at certain times, but if this is happening every session and for
the entire duration, then there can be a limit to the progress of therapy.
Structure is important in CBT, but flexibility is also important. This would be
a time to collaborate to discuss whether to continue on the current diversion
or issue that is being discussed or go back to what was discussed in the
agenda.
6. ASSIGN HOMEWORK
Towards the end of each
session, a collaborative discussion takes place about homework or "action
tasks" to perform between sessions. An action task might be to
buy a calendar if one of the issues is time management or recording thoughts
and images that occur during stressful periods in a notebook to discuss
and address at the following session. Always make sure to follow-up on the
homework or action task at the next session or it creates the impression that
working on problems or goals in between sessions is not a crucial part of
getting better.
7. ASK FOR FEEDBACK
Towards the end of the session, ask
what went well during the session, what could have gone better, and what the
main take-away messages are. This helps to build the alliance, improve future
sessions, and maximize progress.
Cognitive behavioral therapy is
an extremely effective form of therapy, either with or without medications and
is an excellent way to practice psychiatry.
If I can be of help or you
have any questions about cognitive behavioral therapy, adult ADHD or medications,
please feel free to email me at scott@scottshapiromd.com or call 212-631-8010.
Scott
Scott Shapiro, MD, FAPA